Actually 2..
After the last few days, or weeks here are some things I have learned
First, take care of yourself. If you are sick, or have health issues, take care of the it.If not for yourself, for others that love you. Don't put it off. Get yourself taken care of. Doctors and modern medicine can heal and prevent a lot of stuff. My lifestyle will be changing
Secondly,...if you have family that you want to handle your affairs in the unfortunate account that you get sick or incapable of making decisions,,,get it done, and in writing,,,and do it like yesterday. I have never seen such idiotic stupid greedy fuckkkkkkf faces of family members until another family member gets sick. I am truly amazed, humbled, pissed, let down and just really confused in general at the human race. I will tell this story in detail when things settle down in a few months, and I will guarantee yalls jaws will drop when I tell it. To give you a hint I have been accused of "killing my mother to collect her assets". Can't tell any more than that as I may end up in jail tomorrow when my moms family comes into town. I am truly amazed, and wonder how some people sleep with themselves at night...
Please, just plan for your future now is all I can say
Signed:
send bail money
lot's of people to say how things should be done but not willing to lift a finger exept to point blame at another. just know in your own mind your doing what you feel is right and remember, no good deed goes un punished. try and ignore them, you have more important things to focus on now. there will be plenty of time to settle with them later.
In my life Ive been called aszzshole motherffffuuucker, sonof abitch and other names, but never a murderer. Funny thing is, by declining a surgery we actually(possibly) saved moms life.
Ironically my cousin makes dentures for a living. He and his dad may both need a set by tomorrow afternoon. .
I've already banned them access to visitation in the hospital, after they drive 6 hrs to see her
I honestly never in my wildest dreams thought family would come to this> anyone that knows me knows I am a mellow dude, but am NOT one to fuck with at certain times. Now is "that" time
Just remember Allen. Friends help you move but good friends help you move the bodies. :innocent
Nacho said it right! There are a lot of second guessers there, but very few who will lift a finger when the help is really needed.
This is a stressful time for you and you don't need the added pressure of mean-spirited family. Check with the hospital for a chaplain or social worker who can help intercede for you with these relatives. That's what they're there for!
God bless you and may He heal your Mom according to His will.
